Tuesday, August 5, 2025
what are the biggest lessons you have learned from other people?
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Life is a journey that filled with connections, and each person we meet teaches us something, whether we realize it at the moment or not. I've come to be more understand that some of the most lessons in life doesn't come from books or maybe a self reflection, but it comes from observing and interacting with others — people around us. These different lessons and kind of perspectives with experiences have left on whom we are today.
One of the biggest lessons I've learned is the importance of resilience. I have a best friend and her life hasn't been easy, she's faced setbacks and disappointments that could have broken anyone's spirit. But she never gave up. Well… There might have been times when she wanted to and almost gave up, but she didn't. Instead, she used that feelings to keep going, to grow stronger, and to find solutions where there seemed to be none. From her, I learned a lot. Watching her handle everything alone inspired me to keep going and handle my own struggles with a sense of hope.
Another important lesson came from my mom who always seemed to radiate kindness, no matter how the situation is. She taught me that kindness is not just about being nice, but about choosing empathy over judgment. I used to think that kindness required grand gestures, but mom showed me that even the smallest acts, a genuine smile, a few words, or just being present for someone could make a difference. She reminded me acts speaks louder than words. So, that's one of the greatest strengths for me.
Also, time flies, and I knew that I wasn't afraid to share my struggles and insecurities. I realized that it wasn't a weakness, it was a strength. By embracing our imperfections, we created deeper and more meaningful connections with others. I learned that it's okay to let people see the real you, and it begins when we stop pretending to have it all together.
These lessons are not just memories, they are guiding principles that shape how I approach life now. From kindness, the people around me have been some of my greatest teachers. I've learned that everyone has something valuable to offer.
And if we pay attention, we can grow immensely from their experiences.